The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives has gripped the internet since its Hulu premiere in September 2024. The reality series transforms everyday Utah-based TikTok influencers — known as MomTok — into must-watch stars. Fans obsess over their drama, family lives, and viral moments. In just over a year, the cast has appeared on primetime TV, topped bestseller lists, dominated TikTok trends, and even crossed into Bachelor Nation territory. Now, one burning question dominates discussions: How old are these Mormon wives?
Marrying young and starting families remains common in their community. This shines through in their bustling households. The core cast — Taylor Frankie Paul, Demi Engemann, Jessi Ngatikaura, Mayci Neeley, Mikayla Matthews, Layla Taylor, Jen Affleck, Whitney Leavitt, and Miranda McWhorter — collectively shares 26 children, with three more babies welcomed in 2025. Balancing co-parenting, filming, content creation, and influencer deals turns MomTok into a nonstop career.
Taylor Frankie Paul
The #MomTok creator who sparked the original “soft swinging” scandal. Often considered the center of the drama, she is known for her public scandals and rocky relationship with Dakota Mortensen.
Demi Engemann
Often called a “fan favorite,” she became a controversial figure amid group fallout. Known for her blended family and health advocacy, involved in drama regarding the show, according to the Marie Claire website.
Whitney Leavitt
A prominent MomTok content creator who returned for more seasons despite earlier controversies. Known for rocky dynamics, exits, and returns; also appeared on Dancing with the Stars.
Jen Affleck
The most actively practicing Mormon in the group balances family and health challenges. Known as the newest member of the group, she married into the famous Affleck family.
Jessi Ngatikaura
An ex-Mormon member of the group, known for her hair salon and managing drama within the group. She brings bold energy and has faced public feuds.
Mayci Neeley
A former collegiate tennis player who shares her IVF journey and often questions cultural aspects of the faith. Shares her journey through motherhood and group alliances.
Mikayla Matthews
An original MomTok member who got pregnant at 16, known for her outspoken nature. Focuses on family, content creation, and recent baby news.
Layla Taylor
The youngest member navigates single motherhood post-divorce with witty commentary.
Miranda McWhorter
A close associate of Taylor’s who joined the show to share her journey through divorce. Involved in dramatic storylines and family updates.
Even after pauses in filming or cast shake-ups, the drama never stops. Whitney and Demi’s evolving dynamic, group re-entries, and party appearances keep fans hooked. Ultimately, the series captures the chaos of blending faith, fame, motherhood, and modern relationships.